Isikhathi sasolwandle simatasatasa futhi ubungozi buyinto enhle, umbhangqwana othandweni awenzanga lutho olubi, bamane babhebhana ngentshiseko ukuzijabulisa olwandle. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyadingeka ukushintsha indawo ezungezile, noma ekhaya noma ekamelweni lehhotela, ubulili buvele bunesithukuthezi futhi abuthakazelisi. Okuhle ukuthi zazingekho ezinye izivakashi eduze futhi umbhangqwana osemusha ukwazile ukuzijabulisa ngokugcwele.
Ngaleyo ndlela amakhosikazi ayehlale evumela ukujeziswa nokujeziswa ngokwenza imigilingwane enjengeye. Uma entula ucansi kanye nemvelaphi ebudlelwaneni, yilokho kanye akuthola kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe oluhlaza uvusa umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena nomngane wakhe womshado ukuba bathole inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi lisetshenziswa ndawonye izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa, ngicabanga. Ukubuka okuthandwayo, ubudlelwano obuhle nokusonta phakathi kwalo mbhangqwana.